Friday, April 18, 2014

Capture Your Journey - Week #1

Hi all, my friend Amber has been doing a link-up on her blog since the beginning of the year entitled "Capture Your Journey" on her JoyDare blog - click on the hyperlink to get to her most recent post.  I wanted to add the button, but I'm clearly illiterate when it comes to blogging, so that's a no go.

In any case, after seeing several posts from Amber and her mom Marci over at Thankful Homemaker (you can link to her most recent post as well), I have become inspired to try to do something similar.

This weeks travels took me to two places.  I started out the week in Manhattan, staying at the W Downtown which is across from what I still refer to, almost 13 years later, as "Ground Zero."



This was the view from my hotel room, looking at the new WTC building, the memorial area and museum which is still under construction.

On Tuesday night I was supposed to fly into Washington DC (for those of you who know the area - I was flying into Reagan); however, Mother Nature had other plans and my flight was cancelled, and I was scheduled on a flight to land the next day at 3:50 PM - yeah, that wasn't going to work.  Fortunately, I've become very adept at being able to find alternative options, and booked an Amtrak for the next morning.  Of course, there were no hotels in the downtown area so I ended up moving up to Times Square.


View from the Westin Times Square - It was after 8:00 when I got there, so not much of a shot, but still wanted to capture it.  This is the same hotel that my family stayed at when I brought them out to NYC a few years ago to see the tree lighting at Rockefeller.

I have no other pictures of this week's trip - For those of you who were on the RLHS Choir Trip back when we sang at Carnegie Hall, I meant to snap a picture of the infamous Pennsylvania Hotel we stayed at (you know, the one with the big old cockroaches), since it's right across from Penn Station.  Chalk it up to the fact that this was my second early morning of the week (I am SO not a morning person) and I was running a little later than I'd hoped, but I didn't grab one.  I also opted not to snap any pictures of DC as I was driving through...probably a good idea.

I leave you with two final pictures that represent a Good Friday tradition we've had as long as I can remember.  We don't eat meat on Good Friday (the uber liberal United Church of Christ would probably like to see me excommunicated for such an idea - tradition is a bad word), so when I was a kid Grandma always made us "Good Friday Rice" (i.e. Rice Pudding) that we'd eat for dinner, I'm keeping that tradition alive.




The finished product - come on 6:00 get here already - I'm hungry.


The aftermath - after doing this for 8 years, one would think I wouldn't let the double boiler run dry....I was ohsoclose to being done this year.  UGH.  My next house will have a gas stove...

May you all have a blessed Easter Weekend.

Saturday, April 6, 2013

Five (or, really, Ten) Things

One of the bloggers I follow, Nicole did a fun little post yesterday that she found on another blogger's site.  It was fun to read, and I thought I'd do something similar.  The original tag was Five Things You Didn't Know About Me, but both Nicole and the woman she saw the idea from posted ten, so I thought I'd do the same thing.

1.) My Food Can't Touch ever...We're talking even at Thanksgiving, corn and mashed potatoes....if they touch, I don't eat that part.  OK, so if you know me, perhaps you already did know that.  At one point, my friends threatened to give me a lifetime supply of the Styrofoam divider plates as a wedding gift if I got married....did y'all ever wonder if that's why I'm still single :-)

2.) As a child, I hated my name. I mean, HATED it.... When my brother was born, he was named for my mom's dad, who had passed away three months before JT was born, and I was jealous.  John was named for someone, for Grandpa, and, really, for Great-Grandpa.  He had tradition behind him.  Me? Apparently I was named for a character on a movie that my parents watched when my mom was pregnant.   Dad liked the name and it stuck.  Of course, as my mom once pointed out, there weren't great choices for me.  After being presented with the options of Verona (Mom's Mom), Mildred (Dad's "foster" Mom), Bernice (Mom's Mom's middle name) or my great-grandmothers Olga or Ida, I decided Staci was just fine.

3.) I really, REALLY, want to trace back my family ancestry. This probably has to do with the item above. I want to know some family names.   My dad was in foster homes most of his life, and I know his dad's name, and have actually been able to trace that arm of the family back to when they came to the United States.  Mom's mom's side I can also trace back pretty far; it's the other two sides I can't.  I found a census form that was completed when my uncle was a baby, so I have a first name (Although it doesn't match what I'd been told at one point), but can't trace it back any further.  Then, there's my mom's dad's side...yeah, NOTHING, zilch, nada.  Grandpa's parents were gone before he married my grandmother, and back then people just didn't talk about those things; so we're kind of at a stopping point.  I guess I was hoping for some exciting name that didn't sound too old fashioned, but no such luck.

4.If I were picking my career today, it would likely be in law enforcement. Don't get me wrong, I love my job, it's fun, challenging and I get the opportunity to meet a lot of new people.  Being on the road like I am, I don't get sucked into the "day in day out" routine.  That said, what I do isn't "life altering."  I don't save lives or protect people from harm, I just help people with ways to calculate taxes....pretty dull, huh

5.I am NOT a morning person. I'm told as a baby I had my days and nights mixed up, and I'm not sure that I ever truly outgrew that.  I'm most productive late at night; whether it's something for work, baking cookies, cleaning, I can get more done after 10PM than I can before 10AM.

6. I'm afraid of Thunderstorms. Well, the lightning more than the thunder, but the whole storm.  Growing up, my parents house was struck 13 different times, and most of those times I was actually a witness to the ball of fire.  Now, when there are thunderstorms, even if they're not severe, I'll camp out in the basement (which is a big part of the reason that I finished part of mine up....sitting on a piece of carpet wasn't exactly a really great place to wait out storms).

7. I can't drive a standard transmission. My parents are still arguing (20+ years later) about who spent more time teaching me how to drive, so they never tried.  My brother tried once or twice, but the left side of my body (i.e. the clutch foot) and the right side of my body (i.e. the shifter hand) just don't work together.

8. I still remember the first thing I got wrong in school. I was in first grade, and the assignment was to color the pictures of all of the "short vowel" words.  I didn't color the bag...because I don't say bah-g...I say BAG.  Long A.  That's my story and I'm sticking to it.

9. When I make a mistake, even a small one, I beat myself up over it for a long time. I'm far from perfect, but when I make a mistake that someone else catches, I dwell on it and confidence in myself takes a hit.  So much so that, at points, I've refrained from doing things simply because, once upon a time, I screwed up.

10. I haven't given up on my dream to have kids. Growing up, my career changed many times (although I always knew I never wanted to be a bus driver)...n first grade, I wanted to be an astronaut, in fourth, a teacher; n middle school, I wanted to be a nurse and then a lawyer; by the time I got to high school, I knew I wanted to be an accountant.  Throughout all of this, I knew I wanted to be a mom.  In fact, part of the reason I opted for accounting is because it offers flexibility.  I wasn't going to be burned like my mom was when she took a few years off of work to have kids; at least in accounting I knew there would always be a job for me.  Now, as I'm pushing 40, the odds of me having kids are getting slimmer, but I haven't given up on that dream yet.

Fun Finds!

I've got a cold, one of those knock-you on your backside colds where you just want to lay around and do nothing....and, I still have spring cleaning to do.  I took it a bit slower this weekend than I wanted to, but at least I got the worst remaining sections done - the walk-in closet and dressers in my bedroom are now cleaned.  As a result of my efforts, I have several bags to take to Goodwill next Saturday when I meet my best friend and her two kiddos for lunch.

Cleaning my dresser drawers is kind of like putting on a coat for the first time in the fall and finding a $10 bill that was left in the pocket.  When I'm in a hurry to clean, I tend to toss things in the drawers...out of sight, out of mind.  Tonight I found all sorts of treasures...some money, a gift card, and probably the best surprise of all..some memory cards from my camera (ones that I thought had been lost).

Sure made for a fun evening to look back at....


My trip to Brazil


A preseason game in Houston to see my favorite QB (from the year I defected to the Vikings in protest of Ted Thompson, hmmm perhaps I should consider that once again)



My fur child welcoming the Newman Pup Crew (from NASCAR driver Ryan Newman's charity) members the day they arrived.  Krissie Newman, Ryan's wife, actually tweeted me back when I made this my picture on Twitter, cool, huh?




There were also some family pics from a few years back, including our trip to NYC. I'm thinking John probably could kill me for this first pic...





Time spent with my great-aunt.  Side note, Aunt Moise's one of only two family members shorter than I am.  Her husband (my grandma's brother) was a carpenter, and he built the cabinets in their house to be just a little lower than normal. Smart idea...wish I'd have thought of that, then I wouldn't have to tote around my little two-step ladder to every freaking room (or, as too often is the case, try to reach that extra inch or so only to make a bunch o' crap come falling down on me - hence why Spring Cleaning is taking such a blasted long time).



 A picture of my mom and brother at a wedding he stood up for (Mom is probably going to kill me for putting this one in here, I think the sun was in her eyes so that's why she's got such a silly look on her face)...


Christmas at my cousin's house near Chicago.  Apparently, whilst we were blissfully taking pictures, singing carols and eating WAAYYYYY too much good food inside, we didn't notice how much snow we were getting outside.   I was driving, so no pictures of the "make your own lane" freeway near Wind Point, but let me tell you it wasn't fun.



I also found a couple of pictures that made me reflect.  The woman pictured on Santa's lap with her two grandchildren became close to our hearts when she and my brother were involved in the same volunteer organization.  She passed away the May after this picture was taken, but she'll forever live in our hearts.  R.I.P Dee...



And this one...  My mom went to Sheboygan County Teacher's College with the women pictured here.  They all settled down in Sheboygan County, but were pretty spread out.  As I got older, I often ended up at their children's weddings as my mom's guest so I got to know them as well.  They lost their first member earlier this year, an energetic woman who never let her health battles bring her down, and embraced the challenges set in front of her with the knowledge that at the end of her journey she would be met by her Savior.  Pretty sure that if Jesus wasn't a Packer's fan before, Diana will have him converted before this pre-season.  R.I.P. Dianna.


Well, time to close this post.  I have one other I want to make tonight, something that I'd seen on a fellow blogger's page, and then I think it's time to go to bed.  Those of you who know me know I'm a night owl, so being in bed two nights in a row before 9:00 is unheard of....I sure hope this dang cold leaves soon.







 



 

Sunday, March 31, 2013

Spring Cleaning

Back in September of 2005 when I told my grandmother that I was buying my own place, the first words out of her mouth were "Are you going to keep it clean?"  In February of 2006, on the day that I finally moved in, Grandma passed away, and I vowed even harder that I was going to keep the place clean (a part of me feared she would actually come back to haunt me if I didn't).

For the first few months, I did a pretty good job. I cleaned the bathrooms, ran the vacuum and dusted every weekend.  I was actually pretty thorough in my cleaning, including dusting the baseboards and door frames on a weekly basis.  Then came June of 2006, and some unexpected changes that I wasn't exactly excited about.  When my home office became more cluttered as a result of these changes, it became more difficult to keep up with the cleaning.  Eventually, I decided to outsource my housekeeping, first with a professional firm, and more recently with a local woman.

Let me clarify that my house isn't something out of "hoarders" or the show "Clean House."  Things are fairly clean thanks to my cleaning lady who dusts, vacuums, scrubs and cleans the bathrooms every other week (in addition to the regular tasks she has, in the past, helped me to organize my walk-in closet and on many occasions has emptied the dryer and folded laundry).  The thing is, some of the tasks that I initially did as a part of my weekly housekeeping routine really aren't bi-weekly tasks a housekeeper should do, they are more of a one-off thing that should be done occasionally by meand I've neglected to do them.. Plus, as you may recall, there was a period of time where there was construction, which resulted in not only construction dust, but heavy foot traffic.  When people were coming over, I would often use my office as a "staging area" for drying sweaters, etc. and there was always a pile of things to sort through on one spot of my kitchen counter.

For quite some time, I excused my failure to deep clean on the fact that I was "busy."  That excuse falls short, though, when I see a blogger I follow post pictures of her house with nothing out of place even though she works full time and she and her husband have a toddler and a dog who I highly doubt are mess-free.  If she can keep her house looking good on her own, there's certainly no reason my house shouldn't look spotless.

This year, I resolved to spring clean the entire house; working backwards from Memorial Day, I scheduled out exactly what I needed to do every weekend to not only get the yard and garage (which I have done an annual, and often semi-annual cleaning of) ready for summer, but also to pace myself through a spring cleaning.  When I was little, in addition to her weekly housekeeping, my mom used to do a semi-annual deep clean of the house.  I loved spring and fall cleaning; there's something about that 'fresh cleaned' smell that you get during a deep clean, so I was jazzed about actually taking the time to do this.

I started at the beginning of March, with a deep clean of the kitchen, emptying out the cupboards, wiping them down, and reorganizing them.  I was pretty proud of the results, and was excited for the next weekend to come around to start on the next rooms.  Of course, the best laid plans sometimes go awry, and that's what happened.  I wound up working from home the following weekend, and on the road the weekend after that, which meant I was now two weeks behind schedule.  Thankfully, my mom and dad came over and wiped down the village that I have above my cupboards, as well as the birdhouses and suitcases on my plant shelves...I think they were afraid this uncoordinated daughter of theirs would probably fall of the ladder if I was left to do this on my own.

This past week, I was lucky enough to not have to travel anywhere for work, so I was able to use my nights to catch up.   I've been borrowing tips from some bloggers that I follow, and am pretty proud of what I accomplished.  First order of business, I tackled the laundry room, cleaning behind the washer and dryer, wiping down and reorganizing all of the cabinets and putting away the clothes that was hanging up.  One thing I noted, the bain of my laundry activity - Lost Socks, haunted me not only when matching the darn things, but also in finding a "holding pattern" (I have clearly spent too much time on airplanes) for those unmatched clean ones.  It's amazing what you can find on Pinterest though, and I now have a new solution for the lost sock challenge.


After tackling the laundry, I moved on to the utility closet and back hall.  Okay, not a whole lot to do here, just reorganize things and wipe down the woodwork, but still in need of a little TLC.  I then moved on to the stairs and the basement.  The walls were in need of cleaning, courtesy of my fur child shaking the hairball remedy off of his paw and onto my walls; and even though the basement is a recent addition, it was good to give that a little attention as well.  I reconfigured a few pieces of furniture wiped down the walls, hung some pictures that needed rearranging, and that was done.  Moving on to the front entry and hall, I reorganized the front closet, got rid of the spider webs in the closet, wiped down the woodwork, and washed the inside storm door window.

Once I'd gotten some easy tasks under my belt, I moved on to the main bath.  Again, the biggest issue was organizing the cupboards and the linen closet.  I've found through this process that not using the step stool when I should is not a good practice, but everything is now neatly in its place, and in the future I won't try to reach things beyond my height level.



The last room I tackled this week was my office.  I shredded, purged and filed the avalanche of paperwork in the closet; resorted the bins that I had for office supplies, and wiped down the woodwork.  This may sound simple, but it took several hours to get through this one.  During this process I discovered that I may just be addicted to office supplies.  I have enough rulers, notebooks and post-it notes to last me a decade.  I also found tons of stuff that didn't belong in the office that I'd stashed in the closet at one time or another - Christmas decorations that I'd bought at the after Christmas sales; postcards and mementos from different places I've traveled that should be in with my scrapbooking items; and lots of picture frames that I intended to print pictures for.  Instead of just moving the frames somewhere else or putting them back into the closet "until there was time" I took the time to print out pictures and set the frames out - a much better use than sitting in a box or a closet, don't you think?



Since I anticipate getting back on the road shortly, and I do need time to maintain what I have cleaned, the last area for spring cleaning - my bedroom, bathroom, and closet, will be spread over a few weeks.  This will still give me plenty of time for my outdoor chores...cleaning the garage, getting my front porch and patio set for summer, cleaning up my flowerbeds and spreading mulch, all before Memorial Day.

After that, the goal is to be in maintenance mode for a few months before I start Fall Cleaning.  Wish me luck.


Monday, December 10, 2012

I'll Be Home for Christmas



For as long as I remember, this has been of my favorite secular Christmas songs.  Kind of ironic when you think about it, as that song has more meaning now than it did way back then.  Don't take that the wrong way... the holiday is, in fact, a holiday, and nobody I work with would ever expect anyone to work that day, and we do our best to make sure that we're home in plenty of time to avoid any of Mother Nature's surprises.  The thing is, Christmas isn't just December 25th, and for some reason (well, actually really good reasons, but I know I'm a tax geek and won't bore everyone with the reason) the month of December is always a hectic one, both at work and at home.

As I've blogged in the past, decorating is a big part of helping me to prepare to celebrate Christ's birth.  This year I started on the Wednesday before Thanksgiving, and had everything decorated by Saturday; and everything cleaned up on Sunday afternoon (with the help, of course, of my family of elves...well, maybe that's one elf, and a reindeer, and a super brother who does almost everything this big sister asks him to do). 

The week before last I actually worked from home, so I started to mix up double batches of cutout and gingerbread cookies at night...but life was so crazy I only got them mixed up...not cut out, baked, or decorated, before I had to pack my suitcase on Saturday night so I could catch a 10:00 flight on Sunday morning.  So, I wrapped up the dough, put them in airtight bags and tossed them in the freezer.

My flight landed a little before 5:00 on Thursday night and I had to high tail it home in time to meet the family and head out to the Straight No Chaser concert at Kohler (if you've never seen them, search for them on YouTube, they're a fantastic group).  Side note: I first learned about them about 5 years ago, on our firm's intranet site, as one of the founders used to work in our New York office, and I sent a link to my brother because I thought they were really good.   12 months later, John sends ME a link of this group that "he" "discovered" on YouTube.  Great, thanks little brother, nice to know you pay attention to the emails I send...  When I got home at about 11:00 I pulled the cookie dough out of the freezer and tossed it in the fridge.  Now, mind you, I was at a conference for work last week, and had the opportunity to go on the Harry Potter ride that was FREAKING AWESOME.  It was one of these "visual" rides, though, and I think I should have skipped the second time on the ride, as I'm pretty sure that was the cause of the headache that I had on Thursday, and Friday (which was actually the worst - full blown migraine), and part of Saturday.  Needless to say, Friday wasn't a day for baking.

Saturday morning I started to roll out the dough and cut out angels, stars, snowflakes, snowmen, gloves, mittens, candy canes, bells and Christmas trees.  I think I made about 7 dozen sugar cookie cutouts before we headed out to Christmas Carol with our church's intergenerational group.  While a part of me would have preferred to stay home, I had a great time.  We went to the local Assisted Living facility and the local apartment complex where my kindergarten Sunday School teacher lives, as well as caroling by some of our congregation members.  We've done this for a few years now, but this year one of our members, who graciously stepped in to coordinate the event - because I was stretched a bit thin - was able to get a trailer.  She and her awesome fiance even decorated it with lights, borrowed hay bales and had blankest on the trailer.  We traveled through town in style, and I know we helped to brighten the holidays for some.  When we were done, we returned to church and had chili (special thanks to my dad and also my former 4-H leader for staying behind to make sure the chili was warm when we got back).



When I got back home, I cut out and baked about 3 dozen gingerbread men and houses, sealed up all of the cookies in airtight bags, and I was finished for another weekend. 

Sunday was a busy day at church (new member joining, choir singing and announcements that appeared to go on forever), and we got out late.  I rushed home to get ready for the Christmas party for my dad's side of the family, finished the deviled eggs for my dish to pass, grabbed lunch by Mom and Dad and headed on out to the local town fire hall.  I'll blog more about our gathering in the future, but our group has grown from the 7 boys my grandparents raised, and the tag along known as my dad who joined them in his teen years.  This year, there were 71 of us at the hall...and that's not the full group!!!

When I got home last night, it was time to pick up a little (and by that, I mean a little bit - I owe my cleaning lady BIG time for this week) pack the suitcase, and head of to bed before another busy work week.

This coming weekend I still need to: Decorate the cookies I've already made and finish up the rest (pistachio drop cookies, peanut butter kisses, chocolate covered pretzels and chocolate peanut clusters).  Saturday night is the neighborhood round robin, so I think Sunday is going to be when I start my Christmas shopping (see last year's blog - at least I'm not waiting until the 23rd this year). 

Yes, it's crazy, but I wouldn't have it any other way.  I love Christmas, and no matter how busy I am, I will find time to decorate, time to bake and time to wrap gifts (OK, time to watch my mom wrap the gifts I bought for everyone but her), time to go Christmas caroling, time to spend with family and friends.  Life's too short to not enjoy these things.  That is all part of being "home" for Christmas...

In case I don't get a chance to blog again before the holidays arrive, I wish each of you a Merry Christmas and a blessed 2013!

Friday, August 24, 2012

In the Garden



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I come to the garden alone,
While the dew is still on the roses;
And the voice I hear, falling on my ear,

The Son of God discloses

-C. Austin Miles

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When Grandma H, my dad's foster mom, was in the nursing home, our minister would stop in to visit her whenever he was visiting members of our church who were residents of the same facility.  Each time, just before he left, they'd sing the hymn "In the Garden" together, and it was one of the songs that we sang at her funeral.  I've always liked that song, but after that it had even more meaning to me personally.  Each time I sing it, I feel a little closer to her.

Grandma K, Mom's mom, went home to God and Jesus on February 10, 2006, less than 24 hours after I finalized the purchase of my condo.  It was a bittersweet day, Grandma was no longer suffering, but I had hoped that she would have been able to see my place, and that we could have built some special memories there.  Unfortunately, that wasn't to be.

A few years ago, I decided that I wanted to create a memorial garden, with things that reminded me of the loved ones who had passed through Heaven's Gate and were patiently waiting for us to be together again.  I knew that I wanted to anchor the garden with a sugar maple tree like the one that had been by Grandma and Grandpa K's house in town.  Grandpa had passed away when I was 3, so I most of my memories are from stories told to me and pictures...one of my favorites are of me, "Paca" and their dog Bingo under that tree.  I remember when the leaves would told beautiful shades of yellow and orange each fall, Grandma would remark how remarkable the works of the Lord were.

In addition to the tree, my garden included:
  • Peonies that originated at Grandma K's house
  • Lillies that were offsprings of the ones my brother had gotten from the milkhouse by Grandma and Grandpa H
  • A mum that had been split off of one given to my mom when Uncle R passed away
  • A rosebush, because Uncle R loved roses
  • Miniture irises that my Uncle D had given me shortly after I moved into my house (and shortly before he passed away)
  • Lilacs, because they reminded of my grandparents and Uncle D
A few weeks after the garden was completed, Aunt L went to be with Uncle R.  She loved ladybugs, and the day after when I found a concrete ladybug when I was at a local nursery, I knew I needed to add that to the garden.

This year, when my parents' neighbor, D, went to her Heavenly Home, I knew I wanted to add something to the garden for her.  D and her husband, G, had become family in the 11 years that my parents had lived next door, and when she'd talk to Cuddles she always referred to herself as "Grandma D."  Their granddaughter A and her family now live in the house, and they too have become like family (A's daughter - A2 has quickly become Dad's favorite...sometimes I think she may even outrank this "Daddy's Girl").  Originally, I thought that, when we had a month with an 'R' in it (because Uncle D said you didn't transplant in a month that didn't), I would try to move some of the lillies that came from D and G's flowerbed a few years ago, but this week when A had a garage sale, I found the right fit for the garden - a fountain that D and G had on their back deck.  It fit perfectly with everything that was already there, and when it got dark tonight and the light from the fountain illuminated the tree, I knew that was the perfect way to remember her, because she had an ever-present smile that, even on the worst day, would lighten my spirits.

While they aren't physically with us any more, I know that Grandma and Grandpa K, Grandma and Grandpa H, Uncle D, Uncle R, Aunt L, and D are watching over their family and friends, and that I will see them again when the Lord calls me home.  In the meantime, I carry a piece of them in my heart always, and when I need a moment of reflection and rememberence, my garden is the perfect place to go.

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And He walks with me,
And He talks with me,
And He tells me I am His own,
And the joy we share as we tarry there,
None other, has ever, known!

-C. Austin Miles

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